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Lets update that to one of their 2014 studies:

Being dominated sexually: 65 percent women + 53 percent men

Dominating someone sexually: 47 percent women + 60 percent men

Being tied up during sexual activity: 52 percent women + 46 percent men

Having anal sex: 32.5 percent women + 64 percent men

According to you, that would mean there are a lot of male Karens out there, that want to be dominated. We can allow our fantasies to do their part about the last point.

Fantasies and real life aren't the same. Some people still know the difference. Wanting the strong type and be swept off is one thing, while dad bod is reality. Especially these days, especially in North America.

The same studies usually also confirm that when asked about real life, most women do not want this to happen in real life.

Should the women in your life be concerned that you are a bit obsessed with rape fantasies? Have a look at the study results about men who are preoccupied with that...

Would lesbian women have fanatsies about men raping them??? Studies on that are rare, the ones that do exist show such fantasies, but are limited to being raped by women. So according to you that means they want to be dominated by women. Down with the patriachy.

Other studies show that women usually have fantasies while ovulating, even more so while ovulating when not having access to a partner. So its a chemical thing, not an actual dominance thing.

Weak and poorly researched reasoning.

Paul Mendez's avatar

Had a girlfriend who freely admitted to rape fantasies. It wasn’t the act of rape that turned her on. It was imagining that she was so damn hot men couldn’t control themselves and were willing to commit a crime to have her.

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